Oh hark the lil dress


simple yet versatile

Timeless and ageless

so is the little black dress

in my spare time i still find myself some little poetic lines. i miss doing public speaking. All these memories been brought back by my little black dress. Besides, the fact that i am a lover of short dresses this lil black number is at heart. Nothing beats the confidence under your own skin.. in a lil dress😊. Any thick girl can relate to the freedom that comes with taking a day off the jeans 😂. Its a day off jumping and squeezing yourself into one tight jean. So today as i gloat with my little number( allow me to), I have decided to share some fashion tips with my fellow thickums. The little black dress is a wardrobe must have. if you are like me ( pretty good at showing off) go for something that will accentuate your curves. This means its imperative that you get to know your body shape.


The perfect little black dress is a fashion staple. It’s versatile, working hard from day to night. But how to find the perfect little black dress to flatter your body shape?The little black dress knows no bounds when it comes to shapes, styling and versatility.That can be a blessing because there are so many black dresses to choose from, so there is bound to be one out there which is perfect for you.

 TIPS..... Majority of us have insecurities right.

  • Bigger bust :draw your attention to the waist 
  • Pick one that brings attention to your chest with flattering neck lines a sexier cut or v-neck, square or portrait.
  • Wear a good, supportive bra to lift.
  • Thick waist: raise, lower or eliminate the waist. avoid defined waists.
  • Wide shoulders: Do settle for asymmetric necklines and avoid puffy sleeves and voluminous tops.
GENERALLY
  • Add a belt to your little black dress or pick one with a belt or waist-cinching detail.
  • Choose a length either right below the knee or slightly above the knee.
  • A sheath or wrap dress is the perfect choice for curvy women.


Dress up, show up and show off.



I am a size 14. Unapologetic Blogger. Savage lingerie model.

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