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Touchin' Loving on the Plus side

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Just like dating, getting intimate with someone new is a little nerve-wracking for everyone  and this not limited to intercourse. Kissing, cuddling or anything that requires physical closeness can cause anxiety. And if you don’t like your body, it’s virtually impossible to imagine someone else could. In the past, I have apologized to partners for gaining weight. I’ve even apologized for not being super-confident, since confidence is oh-so-sexy. It’s one thing to be vulnerable and admit your insecurities about your body; it’s an entirely different thing when you apologize simply for having a bigger body.  But then apologies for your body have no place in your intimate life. If you’re self-conscious, then you’re more likely to turn the lights off during sex, keep your top on, and avoid wearing lingerie, which is absolutely unacceptable. Speaking about lingerie I have aligned myself with Geesgorgeous http://geesgorgeous.catalog.to   they have a great assortment of plus size li

To Bra Or Not To Bra: Bra Bound Anyway!

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Can i burn my bra already.Heck to be honest a major share of us have  experienced the pure, unadulterated pleasure of taking a bra off after a long, exhausting day, and maybe we’ve gone braless around the house to give our boobs a break (well deserved vacation lol). To think that i am late 'bloomer' who once was obsessed with getting bras quite a lot feels like dry joke. I have been raised around bra wearing women,going bare has never been an option. But do i understand the importance? Perky, saggy, fallen and droopy. Boobs come in all shapes and sizes though some seem to be more  equal than others. Today am just going focus on the disadvantaged saggy boobs better known as flip flops/ fallen heroes in my community. The coined terms clearly impose self loathe. They basically show put them across as disgusting, not sexy and somehow a turn off. The breasts are completely vertical — unfashionable and unsightly by all manner of beauty standards created by the